Showing posts with label Maya. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Maya. Show all posts

Sunday, November 20, 2011

Kolam

As we arrived to Madurai in October which was a big holiday month, we could not help but notice beautiful white and colored designs decorating people's doorsteps. We soon learnt that it was called kolam and it was done by women early in the morning. Since the first week we were waking up way before sunrise due to jetlag, we could see this beautiful tradition being practiced all around our neighbors houses. The kids were fascinated and could not wait to try their hand at kolam. We got some colored kolam powder as a gift from Mr. Selvakumar's family, but after the first attempt I banned it from our house - too messy. Finally we ran into kolam salesman who was selling white kolam powder door to door, and now we have more than enough to play with. Maya has been studying kolam design patterns from Mutamma and as you will see from the photos, she has improved quite a bit. She loves pattern anyways, so this is a great form of expression for her.

Since that's all I know about kolam, below is what I found in Wikipedia about kolam in South India:

Kolams are thought to bestow prosperity to homes. Every morning in southern India, millions of women draw kolams on the ground with white rice powder. Through the day, the drawings get walked on, rained out, or blown around in the wind; new ones are made the next day. Every morning before sunrise, the floor of the owners house ,or where ever it may be, is cleaned with water and the muddy floor is swept well for an even surface. The kolams are generally drawn while the surface is still damp so that it is held better. Occasionally, cow-dung is also used to wax the floors. In some cultures, cow dung is believed to have antiseptic properties and hence provides a literal threshold of protection for the home. It also provides contrast with the white powder.

Decoration was not the sole purpose of a Kolam. In olden days, kolams used to be drawn in coarse rice flour, so that the ants don't have to work that much for to long for a meal. The rice powder is said to invite birds and other small critters to eat it, thus inviting other beings into one's home and everyday life: a daily tribute to harmonious co-existence. It is a sign of invitation to welcome all into the home, not the least of whom is Goddess Lakshmi, the Goddess of prosperity. The patterns range between geometric and mathematical line drawings around a matrix of dots to free form art work and closed shapes. Folklore has evolved to mandate that the lines must be completed so as to symbolically prevent evil spirits from entering the inside of the shapes, and thus are they prevented from entering the inside of the home.

It used to be a matter of pride to be able to draw large complicated patterns without lifting the hand off the floor standing up in between. The month of Margazhi was eagerly awaited by young women, who would then showcase their skills by covering the entire width of the road with one big kolam. The ritual kolam patterns created for occasions such as weddings can stretch all the way down streets. Patterns are often passed on generation to generation, from mother to daughter. Powdered white stone was used for Kolam. Seasonal messages like welcome  is used in Kolam. Volunteering to draw kolam at temple is sometimes done when a devotee's wishes are fulfilled.



Our kolam today by Mutamma

Kolam yesterday by Maya

We were finally able to buy a good amount of kolam powder from traveling salesman. We are testing kolam pattern rollers I got at Kodaikanal

Peacocks! Maya could not be more excited

Raphael is trying his hand at rolling a kolam pattern

First lesson in kolam from Mutamma

I am so glad I took these step-by-step photos





Mutamma finished her first kolam at our doorstep

Kids continue testing kolam patterns


Everyone is satisfied with our heavily decorated doorstep

This is our kolam from last week. Mutamma did the one in the middle, Maya did all the rest

Maya is studying the pattern

Special kolam done by an artist at Maya's school for traditional dance competition

I got the kollam pattern rollers from this street seller in Kodaikanal


Kids' first ever attempt at kolam the first week we arrived in Madurai

Maya's first kolam

Raphael's first kolam

Another early kolam work by Maya

Kolam at the boys' school for Divali celebration

This one is also at the entrance to the boys school

Kolam in our street. And here is Blackie sleeping in her favorite spot

Kolam at Meenakshi temple in Madurai. This one is permanent as it's painted directly on concrete floor

Another kolam at Meenakshi temple. It has birds, therefore it is Maya's favorite


Monday, November 7, 2011

Pale Tail and Mr. Greeners

Pale Tail and Mr. Greeners are our first family pets that haven't been properly introduced yet. When we first told Maya that we may possibly be moving to India, she agreed to go on one condition that she can finally have her own pet birds. As soon as we landed in India, Maya was in anticipation that perhaps today was her lucky day when she could get her birds. Of course, we had no idea where to find them, but we spread the word around and kept our eyes open for a place to purchase birds. Naturally, it was Maya herself who about one week after our arrival spotted a shop with bird cages on one of the side roads.

One happy girl and two lucky birds were united in a quick transaction. Love birds, as they are locally known, were the only kind sold so that's what we got. According to Maya, this species is also known as warbling grass parakeet, shell parrot, canary parrot, budgerigar, or zebra parrot. Maya got right to work crafting some bird toys, feeding them and taming them to hop on her finger. She did some research online about food preferences, and she is dreaming about her birds laying eggs some day. The first day she reported to us that "I am so happy Mr. Greeners is eating because he needs lots of energy to make sperm".


So far so good. Maya has been tending to her birds, feeding them, and cleaning the cage. She even had to overcome her phobias of dirt and ants. I say Pale Tail and Mr. Greeners scored with Maya as their owner. 



We asked the rickshaw driver to pull over when Maya spotted bird cages in one of the shops

The clay pots have a hole on the side and are used for birds to nest in

Maya made her selection

One white and one green, a male and a female were Maya's requests

Lovebirds are riding home on Eial's lap

Raphael gave up his spot for the birds, so he got to ride with Mr. Kannan in the driver's seat

Still quiet and unsure of their new home

We put the cage on the stairs next to an open window

Here is Pale Tail

Maya is showing birds to her new friends

First night in our home, they cling to each other

Here is a painting of Pale Tail and Mr. Greeners in their natural environment watching a sunset

The first item Eial ordered from Flipkart.com (an Indian version of Amazon) was this book for Maya. She's been reading and studying it daily

There is a house in our neighborhood with huge bird cages attached to the tree. We stop by there a lot to watch the birds

This time the owner of the house opened the gate and invited us to take a closer look

One happy village of lovebirds. We were told they started with only four birds, the rest of them hatched from the eggs






Tuesday, October 25, 2011

Maya's school and other highlights of the week

The big news of the week is that Maya did start school last Thursday. It is a long story of how she was admitted, but the fact is that now she is a student at Lakshmi school in Madurai which is the most prestigious, the most elite and selective institution in town. Eial worked very hard to accomplish this, but divine intervention had as much to do with this as our best efforts. What can I say, getting your child into a school you want is like getting elected into an Indian Parliament. Educational institutions are such pillars of society here, you have to respect that. 

The other thing I want to address is that I failed to find any time to blog. I am constantly taking pictures and planning stories in my head, but I simply can not find couple hours of continuous quiet alone time when I could sit down and write. I have a long list of excuses which I am sure you don't want to hear. So much for my big plans of staying at home and regaining some "me" time. It's busy and hectic as it's always been. I guess it's time to adjust my expectations and work with what I have...

Here are some random photos of the week that I wanted to share:

Grinding his teeth while writing his letters. I love the little desk I got for the boys to do their homework on. Only two weeks of daily homework and Raphael has made an incredible progress in writing. Who knew...

Checking out a possible school for Maya

The school is only as good as its playground

Checking out commotion at the emergency room as the ambulance has just pulled in

Maya's first day of school - she is so ready

Mr. Selvakumar gave Maya a present, some chocolates and a motorcycle ride to the bus stop. That's how excited he was for our girl

A worried mother

Maya on her first school bus ride

Doing never ending math homework

I love these headless pictures that the boys take of us whenever they snatch the camera

Yinon is jamming away with Eial's ipod

Homemade rice noodles served with fresh ground coconut milk, all gone...

Blogging away while beating the clock. What will happen first - power outage, kids movie failure, kids biting each other?